Husband Keeps Finances Separate: He Gives Me an Allowance, But Keeps His Assets Under His Parents’ Names

A lonely unmade bed representing how my husband keeps finances separate and distant

I’ve been married for just three months, and I’m already wondering whether my husband truly sees me as his partner or just someone he’s not ready to trust. The fact that my husband keeps finances separate so aggressively makes me feel completely isolated in my own home. On paper, everyone thinks I hit the lottery. … Read more

Not Attracted to My Wife Anymore: She’s 26 Going on 46, and I Don’t Know What to Do

A simple bedroom vanity table, illustrating a story about not being attracted to my wife anymore.

I’ve been married for two years, and lately I’ve been asking myself a question I never thought I’d have to ask: what if you’re still married to a good person, but you’re no longer attracted to them? Realizing I’m not attracted to my wife anymore feels terrible, but it’s the reality I’m facing every day. … Read more

Getting Back Together With An Ex Husband: He Turned His Life Around, But Is That Enough?

Old family photograph on a wooden table, reflecting on getting back together with an ex husband.

Has anyone here ever considered remarrying their former spouse years after a messy divorce? Lately, I’ve been lying awake at night staring at the ceiling, going over the idea of getting back together with an ex husband—a question I never thought I’d have to answer again. A few years ago, I packed up my two … Read more